Learning to Love Better TODAY

Created for ANYONE who gives a sh*t about their relationships.


"Figs is the best couples counselor in the business. His psychotherapy strategy is so damn simple that it feels silly, obvious, or trite. But wait for it. Because it's the most developed, deeply touching philosophy I've ever experienced."
Joshua R.
"I am now having a very authentic, healthy relationship with a new man in my life and I'm certain the work I did with Figs helped me achieve this. He is truly gifted and doing exactly what he's been put on this earth to do. "
Michelle G
"Our relationship has blossomed, our home is a safer, more peaceful, supporting and loving environment. Our most painful relationship issues seem to have evaporated, and the road ahead looks better than ever thanks to Figs!"
Troy A.

We All Need Connection

It starts with you.

I'm not here to give you a fancy makeover to make you lovable. 

You're already worthy of love just as you are! 

There’s just a messy clog of damaging gunk getting in your way, and I’m like the Love Plumber who's gonna snake that sludge out.

What do ya think of that?? I’ve been scratching my head trying to figure out a good metaphor. Obviously, I couldn’t come up with one. :) All I know is Plumbers are heroes. So it stays.

My Course Can Help If...

  • You want to be a better partner.
  • You want more connection and don't know how to get it.
  • You're hurting and you're not sure when to throw in the towel.
  • You want to work on your relationship but your partner seems unavailable.
  • You've broken up and you want to make your next relationship work.
  • You BOTH want to connect in a deeper and more authentic way.
  • You want to be a better parent, sibling, friend, and son or daughter.


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Deeper Connections

Heal Old Wounds

Understand Each Other

Communicate Better

Discover Strengths

More Empathy

How to Climb 2

A Class on LOVE?!

Yes! And you already have the tools you'll need.

If you're confused or suffering in your relationships, you're not alone. It's because most of us never really LEARNED HOW TO LOVE.

Love is a feeling, an action, and a basic human need.

And it's also a skill I want to help you develop.

I'm a successful Couples Therapist and Relationship Coach in San Francisco and I created a quick and easy online course for anyone who gives a sh*t about their relationships. You can take it on your own or with your partner.


Digital Workbook

Comprehensive & Effective
Includes exercises, journaling, insights, quotes, music, videos and more.

Strategy Call

Personalized Guidance
Get a free 30 minute strategy call with an Empathi Relationship Coach.

Relationship Assessment

Unique Offering
Who are you in love? See yourself and your relationship in a whole new light!

About Me

Figs O'Sullivan

Figs O'Sullivan

Couples Therapist & Relationship Coach

I was born, bred and emboldened in Dublin, Ireland and immigrated to the San Francisco area in 1994. One could say I am the typical psychotherapist cliché in so far as I was drawn to psychotherapy to better open to, move through, and heal my own emotional pain and suffering. I was the last of my immediate family to answer the call to become a guide for people to heal emotionally and spiritually. My father is an experiential therapist in Ireland, my mother a social worker/probation officer, and my sister is also a psychotherapist in the Bay Area. For me, being a psychotherapist is a vocation that demands deep commitment to authenticity, compassion, empathy, vulnerability, honest self-reflection, and humility.

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